10 Most Common Mistakes New Sales Managers Make

You just got promoted. Previously, you were an account executive in sales. You were doing a great job, and as a result, you received a shiny new title with new responsibilities.

You’re the new sales manager. Congratulations!

Now, it’s your job to manage a team and empower people to perform at their best. That’s no easy task. Often, when you’re in a new role, you make mistakes. It’s a part of the process.

Let’s take a look at the ten most common mistakes sales managers make and what can be done to prevent them.

1. You Think What Got You to This Position Will Get You to the Next

Being a great sales manager is not the same as being a great account executive. You might think that if you keep doing what you did before, you will further excel in your career. This is not the case. What's required of a manager is very different.


Your Mistake

Although your role has completely changed, you go about your day with the same routine as if you were still an account executive.

Your Solution

Start thinking more carefully about what skills you need to use, how you interact with others, and how you prioritize tasks.

Here’s an approach to get you started.

Embrace Being a Leader

Showcase your values and explain your priorities. Share with your team what’s expected of them and how you’ll measure their performance.

Establish How You Want Your Team to Work

Don’t assume things will fall into place. Explain in detail how you want your team to work. Set expectations and create processes.

Clarify the Direction and Set Foals

Be transparent about the direction and what needs to be achieved. Set ambitious but realistic goals.

2. You Want to be Liked Instead of Respected

As a sales manager, you’ll have to make some tough choices. Being liked is always a bonus, but you don’t have to be liked to be a great sales manager.

Your Mistake

You optimize your decisions for likeability instead of increasing the performance of your sales team.

Your Solution

Be friendly, not everyone’s friend.

Set Boundaries

You are in control of creating the appropriate balance in your relationship with your team members. Navigate that by focusing on the outcome and providing clear guidelines and expectations.

Stay Consistent

It’s important to maintain a high level of consistency in your interactions with your team members. Practice emotional self-control when you find yourself getting too involved. Remind yourself of the job you have to do and the results you need to deliver.

3. You Avoid Conflict

No one likes conflict. We all want to avoid it. But as a sales manager, conflict is a big part of why you’re being paid.

Your Mistake

You think conflicts will resolve themselves.

Your Solution

It’s your responsibility to resolve conflicts. When things go badly, you have to confront them.

Here’s what to do when you notice conflict in your team.

Acknowledge the Situation

Confront the parties involved and identify the source of the conflict.

Find a Solution

Agree on the best way to solve the conflict and give each person the appropriate action items.

4. You Tell People What to Do Without Having to Do it Yourself

As the sales manager, you need to demonstrate to your sales team what you want them to do. The best way of doing that is to lead by example.

Your Mistake

You stop selling.

Your Solution

Make the calls, send the cold emails, and participate in negotiations. Demonstrate how to deal with difficult situations by jumping in, being proactive, and working with your team to find a solution.

Don’t be the sales manager that stops selling. Be part of the team.

5. You Want to Cater to Your Own Ego

If you’re in a situation where you don’t know the solution—don’t pretend you do.

Your Mistake

You try to appear all-knowing and never show any weakness.

Your Solution

When you make mistakes, demonstrate to your team how to deal with those mistakes instead of hiding from them.

Be Vulnerable

Vulnerability is a great skill for a manager to have. When you don't know something, be open and honest with your team. Say, “That’s a great question. I don’t know the answer.”

Own up to Your Mistakes

When you’ve messed up, admit it and be transparent with the team. Explain what happened, why, and how you’ll solve the situation.

Don’t Make Excuses

People can spot BS from miles away. If you set that example, you’ll end up with a team full of excuses.

6. You Try to Impress Instead of Empower

As the new sales manager, you want to inspire your team. But often, your approach will not help the team sell better.

Your Mistake

You focus on showing everyone how great you are at sales instead of helping your team become great at sales.

Your Solution

Provide your team with scalable and repeatable processes.

I used to be that sales manager. I stopped trying to impress my team and started empowering them instead.

The Yellow Pages

When I was a young sales manager, the biggest mistake I made when I started to manage salespeople was that I wanted to impress them. I wanted to show everyone how good I was at sales.

I’d grab the Yellow Pages and tell someone on my team to pick a number. Then I’d cold call them and turn it into a fantastic close. Every call I made had a different approach, script, and angle. My salespeople were always amazed and impressed.

The problem? My sales team couldn’t do the same. No one could learn from it because I barely knew what I was doing myself. There was no strategy. No script. Everything I was doing was for my gain.

Instead of creating a situation they could learn from and facilitate their sales process, I had created unrealistic expectations. I couldn’t teach them anything because I didn’t know what I had done or why it had worked. Sure, they were inspired, but they weren’t empowered.

Ultimately, they all failed. They were trying to imitate my selling method instead of finding their authentic way. They struggled because there was no structure in the way they were trying to accomplish success.

My Aha-Moment

In my early days as a sales manager, I had an aha moment. I met this guy who was a great salesperson. He was teaching us how he teaches his sales team to close deals. With him, he brought some type of brochure. He used this to make his presentation, which was very structured. To me, it made him look like a beginner.

While it was a good sales presentation, it wasn’t inspiring. So I asked him, “You’ve been in this industry for five years. Do you need this material to know what you’re saying?”

He looked me in the eye and said, “I’m not using it because I need it. I’m using it because I expect my team to do this. They need it.”

He told me that when he hires new salespeople, he gives and guides them through this presentation. It’s a process that can be replicated and scaled. He said they would try to do the same if he did it without the material, but they can’t.

I was mind-blown. It was the exact opposite of how I was doing things. This was a compelling moment in my sales management career.

When you’re a sales manager—it’s not about you. Never do things that can’t be replicated, taught, and scaled. Do things you can teach others to do and allow people to adjust those tactics to how they sell.

7. You’re Micro-Managing

You want to be “hands-on” and be on top of everyone. You walk around and look over people’s shoulders. This means you don’t let people think for themselves, make decisions and execute fast.

Your Mistake

You create bottlenecks by making people rely on you.

Your Solution

Take a step back and let people make their own mistakes.

Be Available

Make yourself available, but not for everything. Find ways to empower your team without micro-managing them.

8. You’re Being Completely Hands-Off

On the other side, some sales managers want to be completely hands-off.

Your Mistake

You think you can just tell people what to do and then let them get on with it.

Your Solution

Manage people in the way they need to be managed.

Adjust Your Approach

Some people need more space, while others need more pressure to perform at their best. You want to adopt your style. Sounds like a lot of work? Well, this is why you’re getting paid.

Step in When Needed

Give people the chance to do the work on their own. When there’s room for a lot of improvement, you step in and help.

9. You Want Your Team to Be Perfect

Assuming that your team knows what you know and will perform accordingly is unrealistic.

Your Mistake

You have unrealistic expectations.

Your Solution

Acknowledge that you’re responsible for the team’s performance.

Here’s an example.

Once, a sales manager had many issues with his team. Two of his salespeople were creating problems within the team. One day, he was particularly mad—so mad that he went to the HQ to speak to the CEO in person.

He went on to describe how badly things were going and how much trouble these two salespeople were causing him.

The CEO listened patiently. Nodded along. Took notes.

At the end of it, the CEO looked at the sales manager and said, “First, tell me who the idiot hired these two people, and let’s get rid of that person first. Then we’ll figure out what to do next.”

At that moment, the sales manager stood up and walked out. He got the message: He was the idiot who hired them. He was responsible—not them.

When you’re a sales manager, you’re responsible for everything. That’s what you signed up for. When mistakes are made, there’s no one else to blame but yourself. Hoorah!

People will make mistakes and won’t always perform at their best. That’s why there’s a need for a manager.

10. You Think Everyone Works for You

You’re not the boss. Your team members are your customers. And guess what? You work for them.

Your Mistake

Do you think your sales team works for you?

Your Solution

Correct your attitude. Think of yourself as a support person for your team. It’s your job to help them become successful. Ask yourself daily, “How can I help this team be the best they can be?”

I hope this post will help you avoid some of these mistakes or perhaps rectify mistakes you’ve made in the past. We all start out as green sales managers. Just take one step at a time towards improvement and remember to put your team first.

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